Oral Sex Positions – Let’s Get Mouthy ♕

Show Me What That Tongue Can Do!

There’s a common misconception that, when it comes to oral sex positions, there isn’t a ton of variety. It usually involves laying down on the bed with your partner positioned between your legs. But there are actually a ton of different positions that change the way oral sex feels for both the giver and the receiver. And you don’t have to change what you’re doing all that much to reap the benefits of this sexy act. Oral sex can be fun and intimate, and it can lead to some of the most intense orgasms. So why do so many people downplay it as a warm-up before the main act? Foreplay and the intimate act of tasting your partner’s sweet juices is such an erotic way to pleasure one another.

Considering that the vast majority of people with clits require external stimulation or external paired with internal stimulation to achieve an orgasm, it’s worth asking yourself if you’re giving oral sex the attention to detail it deserves. And that includes the oral sex positions you and your partner are getting into. Whether you’re working with a penis or a clit, the right angle can make all the difference. Before you go to town with your mouth, you might want to have some basic tools handy, like a pillow to prop up the back or butt or a towel to provide an ideal environment for letting the fluids flow, and water-based lube. Sure, our mouths can create saliva, but that’s not always enough.

The Cliffhanger, Rock Your Cock with a Happy Ending

Deepthroat fiends, take note! This oral sex position is the ideal way to open up and align the throat with the mouth so that you can allow your partner to deeply penetrate you with minimal risk of injury. In this position, the receiver stands while the giver lays on their back with their head hanging off the edge of a bed or other soft surface. It’s always smart to start slow, but once you get a feel for how deep the penis is able to go, and what’s comfortable for you, feel free to pick up the pace. Deepthroating can be an incredibly intimate and erotic experience since it can involve opening yourself up to vulnerability.

If you try this one, don’t be afraid to stick a pillow under your knees to get comfy. The power dynamic of this oral sex position makes it highly erotic. There’s something incredibly tantalizing about kneeling before your standing partner so that their genitals are right in your face. While the giver can certainly sit still and have their face fucked, they could also take control. This position allows the giver to access their partner’s crotch from nearly any angle while also having both hands free to do whatever they please. Bringing hands into the mix is an easy way to add more pressure or resistance since your hands are stronger than your mouth.  If your partner has a penis, try using one or two hands along the shaft of the penis to create a “mouth extension” that creates a sensation similar to deepthroating.

Let’s 69

You’ve got to love an oral sex position that aims to deliver simultaneous pleasure to both parties. The main idea of this position is simple: You perform oral sex on your partner while they perform oral sex on you. Anyone can be the top or bottom, and you’re more than welcome to switch who’s where midway through. You can even both lie on your sides, making this an ideal position for anyone with knee or back pain. Plus, this one works for any combination of genitals.

As I said, many people with vulvas need a lot of clit stimulation to get off. That said, it’s not always easy for someone to apply consistent, intense pressure with their mouth and tongue for a long period of time. Face-sitting is a brilliant way to let gravity assist someone in achieving the amount of pressure their partner needs. If the top partner has a vulva, they can ride their partner’s mouth, chin, and nose. Use those areas as pressure points to focus on the clit or vaginal opening.  While anyone can face-sit, it is very difficult to suck a cock from below. That said, if the top partner has a cock, this is a great oral sex position for teabagging.  And of course, there’s no reason you can’t get a little rimming action in there, too. Just make sure to talk with your partner about what they’re into beforehand.

So, have some phone sex and chat about oral sex positions. I’ll certainly convince you once and for all that oral is more than an opening act.