Is He A Giver?

October 29, 2023

I’m not satisfied if he’s not eating my pussy.

Foreplay is an extremely intimate thing, in my opinion. It’s also my favorite thing when it comes to sex. The actual act of fucking is dirty and raw, intense and totally wild. But foreplay is when things go from fucking, to making love. Giving each other’s bodies the attention they need to fully prepare for the act of fucking. So a very important question I ask before having sex with any of my partners is this: is he a giver?

It’s no secret that women are more expected to perform orally than men are. But allow me to let you fellas in on a little secret: women love receiving oral sex just as much as you do. Take the time to learn a woman’s anatomy and what gets her head spinning and I promise you it will greatly intensify your experience with her. Women look to be cherished in the bedroom. We aren’t just there for your pleasure, oral feels good for us too.

If you’re not sure how to eat a pussy out, ask.

One thing I’ve noticed in the bedroom is that men are oftentimes too afraid to ask me what feels good. A woman knows her body best, trust me. If you’re not sure that you’re pleasing her fully, just ask her what you can do better. Communication is key in the bedroom, and it doesn’t even have to be formal. “Do you like that? How about when I kiss you here?” You’ll know you’re eating her pussy out right if you pay enough attention.

I’m not sure about every girl out there, but I make it known I’m having a good time! And the same goes for when I’m not. And it’s all vice versa. Do you think I just instinctually knew how to suck cock? No, but I did have a kind enough partner to tell me “This is where it feels good, now do this.” And after a while, I got the hang of it. After a longer while, I got very good at it. The same goes for both parties learning to please each other.

Here’s exactly how I like to be pleased.

I love it when a man starts off nice and slow. Kiss my pretty little mouth and make your way down to me slowly. I also love a tease. If you’re kissing around my thighs and avoiding giving me what I want, it drives me crazy. Not too much teasing, though. Then I may have to grab your hair and shove your face into me from the anticipation. A woman’s pussy is very sensitive, kissing and sucking on it softly is the only way to eat her out and keep her comfortable. You don’t have to devour it! Ask her to tell you if she wants you to eat her pussy harder, firmer, etc.

I also love being tongue fucked. When a guy sticks his tongue in me it’s like pure ecstasy running throughout my body. I can’t even begin to describe how good it feels. And if you’re an adventurous fella, I can’t tell you a single time I’ve protested a man’s tongue making its way to my little ass hole. It’s an amazing feeling having someone’s mouth explore every single inch of your body. So what are you waiting for now? Give me a call and show me how good I’ve taught you. And maybe teach me a thing or two!

Ever snuck around to have sex during the holidays? I have! Read all about it!