As many of you know, I talk to a lot of people about how to have sex in ways they may have kept secret for years. Because of my enjoyment in the art of fucking in real life, combined with nine years as a professional sex worker, I’ve learned a lot about how to have sex with a partner in a way that maximizes both parties’ pleasure. Regardless of whether your partner is over the phone or in person, it’s important to engage in mutually fulfilling pleasure. Unsurprisingly, a lot of people struggle to verbalize their desires or assume that saying they like dirty talk is enough information to have mind-blowing fuck sessions. By shedding light on the secrets of how to have sex that will continue to excite us both in real life and over the phone, your orgasms will be more satisfying.
Society often teaches us that sex is something not to be discussed as if it is a shameful act. Silence leads to far too many dissatisfied fuckers. Having an open and honest communication style is the first step towards how to have sex that is mutually satisfying for both you and your partner. Before every first session, I like to ask people a variety of questions that ultimately will answer: What turns you on? While some people try to avoid this first step, negating this step is like trying to have an orgasm without touching yourself. Although not impossible, it’s not likely! The questions I’ve found to be most helpful:
But what if you’re not sure how to have sex that you enjoy because you don’t know what exactly turns you on? You can start by saying all of the things you don’t like, then narrow it down from there.
Without a doubt, the vast majority of people are into taboos. Think about some of the taboos that you have found the hottest to watch. You can even do research when discovering how to have sex in a way that you enjoy by checking out the categories/genres listed on your favorite porn website. Talk with your partner about the specifics that both of you like. Remember the more detailed and specific you are, the better your fuck session will be.
One of the simplest ways for us to discover how to have sex in ways we’ll enjoy is getting to know your body really well. It is a fact that people that masturbate experience more sexual satisfaction than those that do not. Without a doubt, the more time you spend with your fist buried in your ass or wrapped around your cock, the more you know what feels good for you. Everyone has a unique body with a variety of sensitivities. Before showing others how to touch you, learn how to touch yourself.
Tell your partner what they’re doing right and wrong- this teaches them how to have sex that you will enjoy. But what if your partner is easily offended? Similarly, what if they feel like they’re not sexually experienced enough for you? Adapt by praising the things they do right and letting go of the things they do wrong. While having sex, this can mean saying things like:
Moreover, even just a pleasurable moan, arching of the back, or digging your nails into them slightly will be a useful cue to depict pleasure. In fact, studies show that people who make noise during sex tend to enjoy sex more than those that fuck like they’re in a library.
Don’t be afraid to experiment. Certainly, if you see something that looks hot and want to try it, bring it up! Sometimes we just don’t know how to have sex in a way we’ll enjoy until we try it. I always suggest trying everything twice. The first time you might not like it since it’s new. However, the second time you’ll be more relaxed and familiar with it. Moreover, trying new positions, role plays, or sex toys can all make the ordinary, extraordinary. If sex is like a feast, most of us prefer a buffet over a single entree for the rest of our lives.
Always have an out. Without a doubt, a safe word is a crucial component for how to have sex in a satisfying way. Pick one that isn’t likely to be said accidentally or to be misheard. For example, I use the word “Mercy” in my personal and phone fucking life. I’ve also used the light system where “red” means to halt that subject or activity, “yellow” means proceed with caution or consider hailstorm gradually changing to something else, or “green” for fuck yes, give me more of that.
It’s time to stop waiting for someone to tell you how to feel pleasure. Stop letting society tell you how to have sex.
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