As a phone sex operator, I know a few things about what it takes to have great sex. Not just great phone sex, but great sex period. So strap in. Because today, Katrina is going to give you my personal guide to having great sex.
Being a phone sex operator means that good communication to learn what turns a man on is part of the job. However, good communication is the cornerstone of having great life.
While it can be difficult sometimes, you can’t be afraid to tell your partner what your sexual needs are. Even if what you need feels forbidden. Having open communication ensures that everyone in the room is going to have a good time.
Rule number 1 of having great sex; never be afraid to communicate your sexual needs and desires to your partner. If you want a prostate massage, let them know. Love it when she tickles your balls? Great! Let her know. As long as communication is open and honest you are on the road to having a great sex life.
In my time as a phone sex operator, I’ve learned that great sex starts outside of the bedroom. Great sex is mental as much as it is physical. It’s anticipation. It’s longing. It’s softness. It’s voice.
If you want to have great sex you have make foreplay a priority. Kissing, is a great way to start with foreplay. A great kiss sends a signal to the rest of the body that there is going to be some great sex around the corner.
Foreplay also ties into communication. Talk, and tell your partner where you like to be touched, where you want to be kissed. Play with her nipples, don’t be afraid of oral sex. And if you’re worried about how to give a blow job the right way, don’t worry I have a guide about that too.
Phone sex is another way for you to enjoy foreplay. Knowing how to have phone sex gives you the space to talk about this things that turn you one, that you may not be ready to discuss with your partner. Think of phone sex with me as a pre-game warmup.
Everyone loves it when they cum. But having an orgasm shouldn’t be the goal of great sex. If you want to have great sex, the goal should be that you and your partner enjoy that experience as long as possible, before an orgasm shows up to shut the party down.
Shift your focus from getting to the end, and having an orgasm. Focus on pleasing your partner and yourself. Loose yourself in how good tight pussy feels wrapped around your cock. How sweet her pussy tastes. The orgasm will always come–no pun intended–but it shouldn’t be the main event.
If you want to have great sex, you need to be fearless. Don’t be afraid to explore each others bodies and experiment with new positions. If she wants to know what double penetration is like, get some toys and try it out.
Missionary sex is great, but have you ever tried the lotus position? Much like missionary sex, the louts position allows for full body contact, touching and kissing. All while she rides your cock.
But experimenting doesn’t always have to mean trying new positions. Sometimes exploring means taking things that seem basic and breathing new life into them. Mutual masturbation is another way to turn each other on. You get to watch the way that your partner touches themselves, and see what they like in real time. Also, just looking at someone you’re attracted to getting off can be a turn on by itself.
Don’t be afraid to try toys on each other. I can hear all of the guys reading this shiver. And I get it. For a lot of men, the idea of bringing toys into the bedroom means one of two things; he’s either incapable of getting his girl off or something is about to go in your ass….yikes!
Nothing could be further from the truth when it comes to toys. Instead of thinking of toys as an indictment of your performance, think of them as a helper. One of the more unfortunate facts of life is that most men are not multi-orgasmic. So, once a guy pops, the show is over for everyone. Using toys can help you get around the way nature has done men dirty. Use a toy to give your partner two or three smaller orgasms, then when you’re ready your money shot becomes the main event.
Everyone has the ability to have a great sex life. All you need to do is be open, stay present and not be afraid to experiment. And if you have something on your mind that you don’t want to discuss with a partner, give your friendly neighborhood phone sex operator, Katrina a call. We can talk about all of your desires and keep you on the path of having great sex.
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