How to give a blow job the right way

 How to Give a Blow Job

Knowing how to give a blow job may seem basic, but for some people it can be one of the most intimidating sexual acts. Giving a good blow job doesn’t have to be intimidating.

When you give a blow job, confidence is just as important as technique. Today, I’m going to give you some tips that will teach you how to give a blow job so good that it will leave him begging for more.

Confidence is Key

When approaching to give a man a blow job, it is natural to have some nagging thoughts. What if I can’t get him off? What if my mouth is dry? Where do I my teeth?!

While these thoughts are natural, you need to push them  out of your mind and approach his cock with confidence! The more confident that you are that you can make him cum with your mouth, and even more important, that will enjoy going down on him, the easier it will be for you to discover what it takes to get him off orally and ensure that all involved have a good time.

One way to boost your confidence even before you wrap your lips around his cock is sexting. Sending a few suggestive messages throughout the day will heighten the anticipation for both of you. And feeling sexy, and getting horny for what is to come is a sure fire way for you to build and sustain the confidence that you need to give a good blow job.

Assume the Position

Position is critical when you want to give a blow job. The most common ways to give a blow job are either laying down, or on your knees. Both positions can be fun, but just make sure that you choose a position where you and your partner can be comfortable. Nothing can kill your confidence and make giving a blow job feel like a chore than being stuck in an uncomfortable position.

Don’t be afraid to change positions while giving him a blow job. It can be fun to start the fun in a more submissive position, on your knees, looking up at him so that he can see the desire in your eyes.

I love making this first position when I’m giving a blow job. Why? Because at this stage of the game my makeup and hair are still perfect, and I can give him porn star fantasy vibes. When being on my knees gets uncomfortable I’ll move us into a laying down position. This way I still get the benefits of being able to look up at him, but I’m also in a better position to touch other parts of his body like his chest and nipples.

From this position I can also use different parts of my body to tease and delight him. Don’t be afraid to wrap your tits around the base of his cock, massage his balls or taint while you’re giving him a blow job. Your ability to take control of his pleasure will turn him on and help you build your confidence. A win-win for everyone.

Use Your Tongue

Knowing how to give a blow job is more than moving your head up and down on his dick. You need to use your tongue too.

Take his cock into your mouth and as deep into your throat as you can without gagging. Now, instead of moving your head, run your tongue up and down the shaft of his cock. Use your tongue to read his cock like a topographic map; find all of the places that make him moan, his eyes roll back in his head and his cock twitch.

Pay attention to how his body reacts when your tongue touches certain places on his cock. His reaction will tell you when you’ve found the sweet spots that drive him wild!

Pro Tip: Instead of taking his entire cock in your mouth, focus on the head. Suck the head of his cock into your mouth, and swirl your tongue around the rim of the head. When you get to the bottom of his head, use the tip of your tongue to play with the sweet spot underneath the head. He will thank you for it.

Mouth and hands work together when learning how to give a blow job

When you are ready to take your blow job game to the next level, you need to be able to work your hands and your mouth on his cock.

Suck the head of his cock into your mouth to create suction. If you’re feeling really ambitious, try to work your tongue against the sweet spot, underneath the head of his cock, with your tongue at the same time. Then put one hand around the shaft of his cock. As you stroke his cock up and down, try to find a rhythm between stroking his cock and sucking on the head of his cock.

You can also use your hands to play with his balls, taint, and asshole, while you deep throat his cock. You have two hands; use them to their fullest potential.

Mix It Up

I’ve given you a few tips on how to give a blow job today. But if you want to take your blow job skills from good to great, there is one thing that you need to know…..relax, have fun, and listen!

Everyone gets a bit of performance anxiety from time to time, but if you relax and have fun with giving him a blow job, any little mistakes you make while giving him a blow job will be a light-hearted learning experience.

Listen to him, and his body. If he gives you a verbal instruction to slow down or go faster, listen to him. He’s telling you what needs to be done to take this experience to the next level. If he moans when you hit a certain spot or make a specific move, remember the moment and circle back to that spot again during your play time.

How to give a blow job wrap up

I hope that this guide on how to give a blow job helps you on the path to being the fantastic cock sucker that you have always wanted to be.

And if you want to talk more about blow jobs, JOI, Edging, Erotic Power Dynamics, Cuckolding, Taboo Roleplay, or anything else, give me a call. No matter what you want to talk about, I’m sure that we will have a good time!

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