3 Hot Sex Ideas To Spice Up Your Love Life ♕

3 Hot Sex Ideas To Spice Up Your Love Life

Need to spice up your sex life?  It happens to us all.  No matter who you are, your sex drive will peak and ebb over time.  Welcome to being human!  Being single makes this easy to handle because if you are not horny, you just don’t masturbate.  Simple.  However, when you are a couple, it’s more complicated than that!

Maybe you have been with the same person for a while, or maybe you just aren’t on the same page sexually.  There are so many reasons your sex life may feel uninspired, but there are many ways to get around this.  This is not a blog where I will tell you to use ice or brush up on blow job skills.  This is my sure-fire way to freshen things up.  So keep reading if you want hot sex ideas to take fun time to a new level.

Spice Up Your Date Nights!

Dates can get stale after a while.  After all, how many times can you go to the movies or dinner?  Eventually, you have to think outside of the box, so why not jazz up playtime?  Staying in seems to be a preferred method for couples that have been together longer.  It’s great, but let’s think bigger!  Number one: Porn-a-thon Date.  It’s as simple as it sounds.  Movies are great, but you have to admit the steamier they are, the hotter you get.  Skip the line and go straight for the hard hitter!  Collaborate on preferences and see what you can watch and enjoy together.  Porn doesn’t have to be watched alone, and close couples share their dirty stash.

Sex toys are a good way to mix things up, but you don’t have to use them the typical way.  Spice up your sex this weekend by taking a trip to your nearest smut shop.  Don’t be shy.  It’s fun to go and see things together.  And you don’t have to go to a trucker shop, because there are usually sex-positive couple shops.  These stores have a sexier ambiance, and women feel more comfortable in them.

Don’t be afraid to look around and keep an experimental mind when you are there.  A vibrator is great on a clitty, but hands down, I get more enjoyment using it on a man.  The sexy and flustered faces they make are undeniably hot.  Having your lady tie you gently to the bedpost and apply that vibe to your cock head will bring you to new heights.

Take Her To A Sex Shop With Class And Get Hot Sex Ideas

Don’t forget the anal play, gentlemen!  Men get so caught up in worrying that it’s gay to like butt stuff, but that is an outdated idea.  Most educated women know there are prime G-Spots in your tight ass that are certain to spice up your sex rituals.  By being afraid to explore this area, you are missing out on a lot of pleasure.  That being said, don’t just grab the biggest strap on you see and drill it in.  That’s not fun, nor will it feel good.  There are many ways to work up slowly.  Plus, there are a couple’s videos available to teach you and your lady, mate, or partner ( I never judge)  how to really build you up.

I don’t want to forget to mention that these more sophisticated sex shops often have classes and workshops where you can learn more about things you are interested in.  Think bondage, BDSM, and the like.  You may even make a couple of friends, so you don’t have to journey alone.

Spice Up Your Sex Life Simply

Hot sex ideas stem from imagination.  To turn that into reality, you need communication.  Spice it up with sexting.  Do you know your partner is leaving work and going to the car?  Great time to send a little spicy message to get them amped to pop through that door!  There are many ways to have fun sexting as a couple, and I will definitely devote some time to blogging about that soon, but until then, stick to the basics.

Breathe and ask your lover to explore!  I will be here if you need me for couple’s guidance phone sex therapy.  Sometimes an experienced teacher is all you will both need to get steamy.