Need to spice up your sex life? It happens to us all. No matter who you are, your sex drive will peak and ebb over time. Welcome to being human! Being single makes this easy to handle because if you are not horny, you just don’t masturbate. Simple. However, when you are a couple, it’s more complicated than that!
Maybe you have been with the same person for a while, or maybe you just aren’t on the same page sexually. There are so many reasons your sex life may feel uninspired, but there are many ways to get around this. This is not a blog where I will tell you to use ice or brush up on blow job skills. This is my sure-fire way to freshen things up. So keep reading if you want hot sex ideas to take fun time to a new level.
Dates can get stale after a while. After all, how many times can you go to the movies or dinner? Eventually, you have to think outside of the box, so why not jazz up playtime? Staying in seems to be a preferred method for couples that have been together longer. It’s great, but let’s think bigger! Number one: Porn-a-thon Date. It’s as simple as it sounds. Movies are great, but you have to admit the steamier they are, the hotter you get. Skip the line and go straight for the hard hitter! Collaborate on preferences and see what you can watch and enjoy together. Porn doesn’t have to be watched alone, and close couples share their dirty stash.
Sex toys are a good way to mix things up, but you don’t have to use them the typical way. Spice up your sex this weekend by taking a trip to your nearest smut shop. Don’t be shy. It’s fun to go and see things together. And you don’t have to go to a trucker shop, because there are usually sex-positive couple shops. These stores have a sexier ambiance, and women feel more comfortable in them.
Don’t be afraid to look around and keep an experimental mind when you are there. A vibrator is great on a clitty, but hands down, I get more enjoyment using it on a man. The sexy and flustered faces they make are undeniably hot. Having your lady tie you gently to the bedpost and apply that vibe to your cock head will bring you to new heights.
Don’t forget the anal play, gentlemen! Men get so caught up in worrying that it’s gay to like butt stuff, but that is an outdated idea. Most educated women know there are prime G-Spots in your tight ass that are certain to spice up your sex rituals. By being afraid to explore this area, you are missing out on a lot of pleasure. That being said, don’t just grab the biggest strap on you see and drill it in. That’s not fun, nor will it feel good. There are many ways to work up slowly. Plus, there are a couple’s videos available to teach you and your lady, mate, or partner ( I never judge) how to really build you up.
I don’t want to forget to mention that these more sophisticated sex shops often have classes and workshops where you can learn more about things you are interested in. Think bondage, BDSM, and the like. You may even make a couple of friends, so you don’t have to journey alone.
Hot sex ideas stem from imagination. To turn that into reality, you need communication. Spice it up with sexting. Do you know your partner is leaving work and going to the car? Great time to send a little spicy message to get them amped to pop through that door! There are many ways to have fun sexting as a couple, and I will definitely devote some time to blogging about that soon, but until then, stick to the basics.
Breathe and ask your lover to explore! I will be here if you need me for couple’s guidance phone sex therapy. Sometimes an experienced teacher is all you will both need to get steamy.
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Had a long and lovely call with Avalon this weekend. She is a wonderful person who is fun to speak with about anything, but of course, she is especially good at the phonesex part of the conversation. She listens intently, knows what her client likes, and contributes her own ideas to the calls. I switched things up in the middle of our call and she didn’t miss a beat, figured out quickly where I was going and met me there in a way that completely fulfilled the fantasy. She is, and remains, extraordinary.
Honestly, Scarlett is absolutely incredible. She is far from an average operator. In fact, she is sexy, passionate, and mesmerizing. I never wanted the call to end, and you won’t either!
Aileen~ Awesome as Usual!
Aileen is the best! We have had quite a few date nights now and she drives me crazy each time. She knows me and what I like now and plays until I can’t take it anymore…in a good way of course. It’s also fun to laugh with her during “pillow talk”. The time always goes too fast! As always, looking forward to next time.
On our latest call Aileen deemed me to be Her sickest disciple, after previously telling me I am the most pathetic. I am so honored to be Her sickest most pathetic disciple. Aileen has brought me so far. I love ❤️ and worship Her and pray that our journey continues forever. Aileen rules!
Michelle’s voice and ideas were very exciting!! I can’t wait until our next adventure!! Everyone should give her a call she won’t disappoint you. When you call her, I’m sure you’ll be feeling the same way!!
Simply put, Vicky is and always has been amazing. She is so much fun to play with and talk to!
Zoey was amazing. The minute our call started, she knew what I needed and delivered like no other has. She is Spectacular!
This red-headed vixen blew more than my fantasy away! Talk about knowing what to do and how to do it…. This was by far the best I have had in a long time.
I feel Mistress Megan is in charge even when not online. I’m her slave.
Megan is extremely open minded. Plays along with even the most taboo fantasies. Close your eyes and enjoy!
Jamie has gotten insanely popular, so she is often “busy” or “offline,” but a call with her is well worth the wait. Sweet, attentive, and often funny as well as dirty, she has raised my fantasy role-play into something hotter than I ever imagined it could be.
