Do you enjoy the psychology behind sex? As your resident fantasy “phone sex therapist”, I’m very fascinated with all of it! Though not an actual therapist, it’s long been a special interest of mine. I love that I can be a listening ear or inspire some interesting thought experiments. Let’s be clear, though. My primary objective is to arouse you and to entice your orgasm! I’m a pent-up horny little sapiosexual after all, so I hope my nerdy special interest will attract your brilliant mind and your beautiful boner. Today let’s do a little deep dive on a phenomenon called “The Madonna-Whore Complex.” Stay hot and bothered though, lover! Pretend I’m your therapist and having you on my couch always ends up extremely erotic and highly unprofessional!
First identified by Sigmund Freud, this psychological “complex” is a way of looking at women without nuance, but instead with a false dichotomy. She’s either a saintly “Madonna”, or she’s a debased “whore”, and nothing in between. Men with this “complex” have a desire for a sexual partner who has been degraded, while they cannot desire a partner they respect. This black-and-white way of thinking can cause problems. When a woman takes on the role of wife or mother especially, she can be typecast subconsciously into the role of “saint”, causing a loss of attraction not based on physicality or actual chemistry. Conversely, a strictly sexual partner may be difficult to love and respect properly. With an awareness of these subconscious thought processes, we can mitigate the harm and play with the turn-on.
Exploring the “why” behind our kinks is fun, at least for me. Some turn-ons are inherent, while others come from formative moments, social conditioning, or even trauma. Being lighthearted about it is important. We all deserve to get off, and get off hard! We should give ourselves the grace to play with our turn-ons. I think the cause of the “Madonna-Whore Complex” stems from false beliefs about sex in our culture. Often the act is seen as something done “to” a woman rather than “with” her. Explore other ways of looking at it. Do you “penetrate” me? Do I “engulf” you? Or do we connect? Other false ideas are of sex being inherently wrong, or the enjoyment being one-sided. Indeed, if you hold these subconscious beliefs, it’s difficult to reconcile sex with love.
I don’t think this “complex” is specific to men, so I’m going to fess up about how it presents for me. Disrespect in bed turns me on. If the dynamic we’re playing with calls for it, and you call me a “whore” or a “slut”, the turn-on for me is intense! Why? I think it’s related to the Madonna-Whore complex. For the record, it’s extremely humbling for me to admit this particular turn-on. I mention it because I hope you’ll follow suit and be open about what turns you on, whether embarrassing or not. It will only serve to bring you more intense pleasure, my dear! I have plenty of other kinks to share with you as well. You’re going to adore my dirty little mind!
If you struggle for intimacy in your marriage, this can be at the root of it. I recommend watching “Esther Perel”. She will help reframe your way of looking at your partner, plus she’s a very sexy older woman if you ask me! If you find it hard to respect and care about women once your relationship has become sexual, unpacking this more might be a good idea. Women are whole and nuanced humans, and our brains, (men’s and women’s alike) can trick us into not seeing it this way. But the most important takeaway? We should lean into it together if it turns you on. Call me! Let’s play with the sexy side of the Madonna-Whore Complex and have a sexy role play encounter. Indeed, it may not be right, but we both know it’s HOT!
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