Chastity is one of the trendiest fetishes or kinks for gay men at the moment. It is a practice when used in a device-driven format, centers on submission. It dabbles in body modification through orgasm denial.
While some practitioners use chastity cages only in connection with sex, wearing them for only hours at a time, others view it as a lifestyle.
Most of the time, guys want to experiment with cages because they want to further explore their submissive side. I find it refreshing to hear a sub wants to experiment. Many want to control their premature ejaculation. Which, understandably, can take the excitement out of having sex.
There’s something so erotic about losing your ability to jerk off. Having to depend on your dominant in order to receive pleasure.
Just like any fetish, there needs to be knowledge and techniques in order to enjoy and find pleasure.
Chastity is a very common kink and is fantasized about by many. From the perspective of both the chastened and the chaste.
For dominant types, it tends to be about control and ownership. A submissive in chastity is at the mercy of their dominant. They can’t pleasure themselves without first being freed.
For the submissive, it’s thrilling because it’s another way of being out of control.
The ability to use and touch your own body as you see fit is a fundamental thing to have removed and for many, that’s an enormous turn-on.
There are many kinds of chastity devices such as chastity belts and chastity cages. Experiment a little to find the right sort for you.
Although chastity cages and belts are used as symbols sometimes, there is no need for them.
Chastity can be enforced by word only. There definitely needs to be a strong bond of trust for it to work and lots of honesty.
If you claim to be not having orgasms and you’re actually cheating, it’s really not fair.
You need to have the trust to tell the dom if you’ve cheated and take the punishment that is dished out for disobedience.
Most things are better when you’ve not had them for a while. Just like when you give up something like wine, chocolate or biscuits for lent.
The denial leads to more pleasure when you get to have that first sip or bite.
So giving up on having orgasms for a while might just make it all the better when you actually get to come.
It’s a great way to play with a dom/sub dynamic; handing your climaxes to another person. It really is a high expression of trust.
Chastity fetish is a super sexy kink and I’m glad to see it take off within the past few years.
More and more people are dipping their feet into the amazing world that chastity kink has to offer.
It makes the mind go wild. Learning to cum through anal stimulation is such a feat. Once achieved, you might not want to cum through jerking off ever again.
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