Female Oral Sex – How Many Licks Does It Take? ♕

Guys Try…

They really do. But when it comes to female oral sex, they can fluctuate between acting like they’ve never seen a vagina before to getting so in the zone that they have no freaking clue what’s working or not for you. I decided to help you all with a nice little cheat sheet of some of my favorite ways to receive a little lip-to-lip action.

Oral sex means using your mouth, lips, or tongue to stimulate your partner’s genitals or anus. You’ve probably heard oral sex called many names – ‘going down’, a ‘blow job’, ‘giving head’, a ‘69’ or ‘rimming’, and the list goes on. There are also medical names for oral sex: oral sex on the vagina, vulva, and clitoris is called cunnilingus, and oral sex on the penis is called fellatio. Oral sex involving the anus, it’s called anilingus. So now we’ve gone over the difference, let’s make sure you know all the naughty tricks to make it an out-of-this-world experience.

Slow, and Steady Gets the O!

The key to a great orgasm is the slow build-up. Building anticipation of your touch is simply tantalizing. Start playing with the vulva, the thigh, and between the legs, touch, lick, blow on it, and stimulate the area in ways your partner likes, gently! Female oral sex doesn’t have to last hours, but longer than 30 seconds is a good start. Please, don’t rush. As much as you may like giving oral sex, do not rush there like you are starving. Gently, gently, and pay attention to how your partner responds. Moans while pulling your head in closer are good, groans while pushing it away are bad. Simple!!!

Instead, go slow and increase the speed as you see her body respond and become more aroused. Some women like a soft touch and can’t stand strong stimulation. Others prefer a stronger stimulation and might even find a soft touch frustrating. I personally love when your tongue is doing a lot of really firm up and down action with your tongue flat against my swollen clit. All of us are different, so just ask! If stronger is better, you could help by using two fingers on the clit. Another option is using a clit vibrator a great trick for not getting too tired. I like my little rose that sucks and vibrates. But if you would prefer to do it yourself then sucking the clitoris could also work.

Give Me That Oral Tease, Please!

Don’t’ Go to the clitoris right away. Tease around it, it’s the last part you touch when she is really aroused. Honing in on her vagina like a heat-seeking tongue missile is the opposite of sexy. Work your way down by kissing her neck, breasts, stomach, and inner thighs. Then you can go in for the kill. Don’t be a human Anteater right off the rip. You may like it hard and fast right away when you go in for the kill, but we women like a little buildup. Take your time, assess the situation, and go slow!

Female oral sex is a marathon, not a race. A good start is to try circles around the clitoris or some kind of up and down movements with gradually increasing speed. Try using your whole tongue for more pressure, but she may also prefer more pinpoint stimulation. So, just the tip of your tongue may be enough. Also, try stimulating the oh-so-famous G Spot during oral. Insert your fingers into her vagina using a “come here” movement with your fingers while inside.

So, I’ve now created a little cheat sheet for you, give me a call and you can tell me how you’d perform the perfect act of female oral sex on me!