Many people practice orgasm control or tease and denial games but have you ever sought to use orgasm ruination? It’s a not so popular fetish and one my Master’s slave Damon enjoys and I have assisted him in helping with it. Whether it’s a well placed kick to the crotch or using caging or mind games this can be a really fun way to mix it up. Enjoying orgasm ruination is not for everyone but it may be for you. This may be considered an extreme form of playing with edging.
Firstly cock cages can be a very effective way of using orgasm ruination for men by not letting them achieve erection. Chastity belts are the female equivalent. The submissive could sit and watch porn or live sex for hours which will never physically be able to happen. These devices don’t permit touch or physical stimulation of any kind thereby using orgasm ruination by denial. For most, this might torture but for those who love it can be the ultimate edging and tease and denial game of all time. Some Masters/Dominants also use this as a form of control over their submissive’s sex for their pleasure and to ensure their faithfulness and commitment.
The second method for using orgasm ruination that I have seen used is by utilizing direct force. Whether it’s physical blows or being too rough these are perfect ways to ruin any orgasm. Witnessing my Master’s male slave be kicked in the nuts so hard that it stopped him dead in his tracks was my first demonstration of using orgasm ruination and made me wince watching it. This is an extreme form that only hardcore masochists will enjoy and is not for the faint of heart or beginners. I have had this used on me on a much smaller scale with my Master using too large of toys on me as I neared climax stopping me due to discomfort. Using Ice or extreme temperatures can also work for some to stop any fun. These physical methods are effective in using orgasm ruination.
Lastly, your mind is the largest sexual organ you have. They say sex is a mind game and when dealing with using orgasm ruination, I have to agree. Nothing kills the moment quicker than bringing a beloved relative to the mind at the wrong time. Removing a blindfold revealing that your partner isn’t who you thought it was can also cause the ruination of any orgasm. These mind games are a very quick way to use orgasm ruination in any scene. These extremely sadistic tactics are not for everyone and require much planning and negotiating before completion. I recommend an extended amount of time for aftercare to prevent lasting trauma for the submissive or damage to the D/s relationship when using orgasm ruination.
Want to play with using orgasm ruination…Call me and let’s see if you can take it!
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