All About Spanking: Let’s Dive Into It

All flavors, especially vanilla

Spanking is one of those fetishes that ranges from vanilla all the way to extreme. The act of being hit on the ass by a hand or object, which some people view solely as painful, the reasoning is more complex. That’s why it’s important to learn about spanking. Some like to receive a few spanks while fucking, during foreplay, and after. Of course, in most cases, it doesn’t get much farther than the slap of a palm on a bare ass cheek. You can have so much fun with toys too! Belts, canes, whips, any object in hand used to strike that ass. Pain is a factor, as is pleasure, but there’s no one word to accurately describe the appeal of erotic spanking. It has more to do with the electrifying sting and warmth. The wonderful vibrations that spread as the energy transfers from one to another.

This guide to spanking isn’t just about the physical impact

I’m sure all of you reading this know, people may find it sexually arousing to play power roles. It’s freeing to release responsibility and power in a controlled environment. Especially when in your regular, boring life you have so much to be responsible for. Spanking is a perfect way to change that mundane routine. There is a whole submissive headspace that the bottom goes into. The longer the session, foreplay, and pain go on, the further they fall into an out-of-body feeling they often crave. As a domme, I crave that too. I find so much pleasure in watching my submissives fully let themselves go into that extremely pleasurable altered state. When limits are pushed, time is distorted. Each spank sends them into a deeper state of consciousness. A place of humiliation, ecstasy, pain, pleasure, and truly a high.

Lay over my knees!

Pick a position that feels comfortable for you. I love when my submissive lay their belly right across my thighs. Their ass is in a perfectly vulnerable position. There’s the basic hand-to-ass motion during sex, and then there’s the bent-over-the-chair, cane- or paddle-to-ass spank; not all those who like a good ass-slapping during sex like a hard whack with a cane. The fleshy part of the ass, of course, is a great place to start. I love to lightly tap the cock and balls as they’re bent over for me. The sweet spot is where the ass and upper thigh meet.  A perfect little, sensitive squishy area. You should absolutely not impact the spine, back of the knees, or tailbone! I’m all for giving you the pain you need and deserve, and I know how to take good care of you.

Don’t overlook the items at home

Of course, the sex shops have a buffet of wonderful toys and gadgets to play with. However, I love going on a little treasure hunt around the house to find fun objects to inflict pain with. Once you start finding them, it’s hard to stop seeing the erotic potential in all sorts of everyday items. Spatulas, wooden spoons, hairbrushes, flat shoes, remotes, hangers, belts, and broom handles! Anywhere you look around you, there are objects that you can use as sex toys if you’re brave enough. Although I love to spank my submissives until they’re red and stinging, I absolutely love to rub those cheeks in between the impacts. I get so excited watching them shake in anticipation, not knowing when the next one is coming. Even adding some oil throughout the spanking session. It offers a slight cooling effect and makes the spanks more sensual.

Whether you need to be punished or rewarded, I’m here to take care of it for you 😉 Give me a call <3

xoxo

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