How to Have Anal Sex a Beginner’s Guide

How to Have Anal Sex: A Beginner’s Guide

So, you have been wondering how to have anal sex, but you don’t know where to start. Never fear! Your friendly neighborhood phone sex operator Katrina is here to help!

This beginners guide to backdoor loving is here to help ensure that your first trip into the world of back door pleasure is going to be a good time.

What is Anal Sex

The mechanics of anal are pretty simple. Take your cock or a toy and put it into your partner’s asshole.

However, while the mechanics of anal are simple if you don’t understand how to execute anal properly you can end up with a nasty mess that no one wants to deal with.

So now lets  look at some ways to prepare for and execute backdoor love properly.

Be Prepared

Proper preparation helps create a more comfortable and enjoyable rear-entry experience.

Lube, lube and more lube– Unlike the penis and the vagina, the anus isn’t self lubricating. So to make sure that your rear door play goes smoothly and doesn’t hurt your partner, you are going to need a lot of lube. I always recommend water based lubes.

Bring in the Toys- To me finding the right toys is part of the fun of anal exploration. From anal beads, and dildos, to prostate stimulators and vibrators the sky is the limit when it comes to toys. Since most of the people reading this are new to the joys of backdoor fun, I suggest starting with small to mid sized toys with a flared base.

Clean It Up

As hot as anal exploration can be, it can also be very messy. And not always in the the fun way. So once you have your lube and toys laid out. It is time to get cleaned up for the main event. Here are some tips to make sure that your rear entry is squeaky clean and ready to play.

Go to the Bathroom– Always try to have a bowl movement before any anal activity. Clearing out the pipes will make anal penetration more comfortable and reduce the chance of a mess in the middle of the party.

Shower and Shave– Before any sexual encounter, you always want to fresh and clean. Anal play is no exception. So when you’re in the shower pay some special attention to your anal area when you shower. This is also a good time to tidy up your shaving game. We all have hair around the anus area, and you like things clean shaven now is the time to make it happen.

Trim Your Nails– The anal lining is extremely delicate and can tear easily. To prevent damaging the delicate anal lining, make sure that your nails are clean and trimmed with no rough edges or hang nails that could accidently cause damage. If you don’t have time to trim your nails consider wearing gloves. Exploring anal pleasure while wearing latex gloves, can help prevent accidental tears in delicate areas and makes for easy clean up if things get messy.

The Main Event

Now that all of the prep work is behind us. It is time to get down to the action, with some hot rear door play. These tips will help you relax, and make butt-stuff easier.

Warm Up– All sexual activity, anal play is a lot more fun when you’re horny and turned on. So get your cocktails, your dirty movies, herbal refreshments, and whatever else you like to use to set the mood. Better yet, call Katrina, phone sex operator. I’ll help you build anticipation, explore your fantasies, and get warmed up for the evening ahead.

Get Comfortable-Find a position that makes you comfortable. For many people the most comfortable position for butt love, especially the first few times is to just lay break, spread your legs and enjoy the ride. As you get more comfortable, you can always experiment with positions as you get more comfortable with anal.

Fingers First– Before you break out the toys, use your hands. Lube up your fingers and tease around your partners Hershey highway. This is something that you can add to your foreplay and help your partner relax before you break out the toys. This also gives you the opportunity to see how your partner’s anus responds to touch.

Time for the Toys– Grab your lube and lube up your smallest toy first. Once the toy is good and wet, press it against you’re partner’s anal opening and slowly push the toy into your partner. You always want to start slow when you’re exploring anal  intimacy. This helps prevent causing pain or discomfort for your partner as you find a rhythm that works for both of you.

Time to Play

Now that we have gone over some of the basics of backdoor love, I want to know all about your anal adventures. And if you really want to take things to the next level check out my guide to pegging.

Every great adventure starts with a little curiosity. Whether you’re new to anal play or already a fan, phone sex operator Katrina can help you explore your fantasies, build anticipation, and enjoy a personalized experience designed just for you. Call today and let’s make things interesting.

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