Hot Anal Sex 101: Pleasure For Both ♕

Hot anal sex can be just as pleasurable as normal sex.

Every day, I hear how men try to fulfill anal fantasies with their partners. However, their partners are never keen on going through with it. Whether it is from fear, insecurity, or just sheer nerves, many women shy away from the idea that hot anal sex could be pleasurable for them too. When I’ve talked to women like this, I’ve found many different reasons they don’t want to. The most common excuse is being afraid of the pain that comes with it.

Anal sex can be quite painful for the person receiving it. Everyone already knows that, but it can be painful for the person giving it too if they don’t take the necessary steps. So many men want to just shove their cocks in instantly; some do not use any lubrication. The asshole is incredibly tight—so much could go wrong if you don’t properly stretch out the hole you want to fuck. The friction alone can cause pain to a man’s cock and hurt the woman taking it. This is typically why she’ll shy away and scold you for jumping the gun.

How do you make hot anal sex feel good?

The answer to this is pretty simple: Foreplay. I know foreplay may seem taxing to some men, and they want to jump right in. But imagine when you take your time stroking yourself and let the slow build-up get more intense. That final moment feels incredible! Foreplay works the same way. A woman’s body is typically sensitive all over, and so is that tight little ass of hers.

She will be nervous giving her ass up to you no matter what. Foreplay is a way to help her relax, and pleasure for a woman is very psychological. If you can lay her back in bed, kiss her lips while trailing your fingers lightly over her breasts and nipples. Her body will react to every touch. Not even just the erogenous areas. Trail those fingers over the sides of her waist, over her stomach and hips. It’ll make her shiver all over.

Of course, you can allow yourself some pleasure too. She’s letting you fuck her tight little ass, so she’s in the mindset to give you pleasure. Since it’s psychological for us, giving you those intense feelings will make her pussy ache for you. Crawl up to her and get on top, letting your cock fall into her mouth as you lay over and taste her sweet cunt. The position will drive you both crazy, and getting her to cum beforehand will relax everything down there and get it extra wet.

Now it’s time to really prepare her!

Once you’ve gotten her to cum so hard from licking her pussy, it’s time to move on. I’m sure your cock will be twitching and your balls begging to cum, but just wait. Go down to her pussy and ass. Push a couple of fingers into her cunt and your pinky into her ass. Does her ass take your finger with ease? Did she wince, or did she moan when you put it in? Pay attention to her body language. If she seems stressed, take your finger out, go down with your tongue, and just trace it. Then put some lube on your pinky before sliding it back in her tight little ass.

Now she should definitely be moaning and bucking her hips up, begging for more. Slide that pinky in and out until you feel her fully relax around it and stretch. Then, it’s time for a second finger. Slide in the ring finger, take the pinky out, and thrust the other in and out. It should be easier now. Push the pinky back in with the ring finger and spread them inside. Stretch her out for that hot anal sex.

When her tight ass is fully stretched, go for it!

Now that she’s fully stretched, relaxed, and all lubed up, it’s time to ask if she’s ready. Kissing up her body, fingers still deep inside her. Find her ear and whisper in it. Ask her if she’s prepared and what position she’d like to be in. She should be comfortable. I personally like being on my side and my partner behind me. My leg hiked up and spread wide. It’s a comfortable position for both.

You’ll slide up behind her as she rolls over. Then, grab her leg and help her hold it in the air. Kiss her as your body presses into her, and you guide your cock between her cheeks. Don’t forget the lube! Press the head into her hole and start slow. There’s a small threshold of pain to get past, no matter how stretched she is. Let her wince through it and rub your hands on her body, comforting her. Then slide your cock in slow. Let it sit for a moment and check in on her. Slowly start thrusting more, then pick up the pace. Soon you’ll both be screaming with pleasure and feel even closer.

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