Discovering Dominant Desires

Discovering Dominant Desires

Hello, naughty ones. And happy holidays to those of you who celebrate them! I never thought I’d find myself writing about a particular relationship that just came to mind. But here I am, ready to share another post-divorce chapter of my life with you – one that took an unexpected turn in retrospect. And so I’ll call this confession Discovering Dominant Desires.

Divorce is never easy, and the dating scene that followed, for me, was a mix of excitement, disappointment, and the occasional surprise. One of the biggest surprises came in the form of a man named Chris, who introduced me to a side of myself I never knew existed.

Let me start from the beginning. Chris and I met via a dating site, and there was an instant connection. In addition to being ruggedly handsome, Chris was also charming, and witty, and had a way of making me feel at ease. But little did I know that our journey would take a turn into uncharted territory.

Chris dropped a bombshell on me a few months into our relationship during a very romantic candlelit dinner. He hesitated before confessing that he was a sub. To put it another way, he had a submission fetish. And to say his revelation took me by surprise would definitely be an understatement!

Chris was a six-foot-five bodybuilder/construction worker with a booming baritone voice, hardly the kind of man I’d expect to be sexually submissive. But he was. And instead of recoiling, I decided to approach the situation with an open heart and mind. After all, I believe that a strong relationship is built on trust, communication, and acceptance.

The process of discovering dominant desires within.

Chris dwarfed me by more than a foot and 100 lbs. So would I really be comfortable taking on a dominant role with him, sexually? Could I, physically? And how would doing so impact our relationship, emotionally? Those questions swirled in my mind as I weighed the pros and cons of stepping outside my comfort zone with Chris. Ultimately, I decided to take the plunge, realizing that experimenting within the bounds of consent could potentially strengthen our connection.

The first two attempts were awkward, to say the least. However, Chris was very patient with me and explained what he enjoyed and the boundaries we needed to establish. And to my surprise, I found a sense of empowerment through discovering dominant desires within me and embracing them. I also learned that sexual dominance in a romantic relationship isn’t about controlling or overpowering your partner. It’s about mutual trust and shared vulnerability.

The third time proved to be the charm.

I remember Chris lay face down and spread-eagle on the bed. He was naked, wearing only a mask with handcuffed hands behind his back. Yours truly was clad in a crotchless latex bodysuit and wielding a cat-o-nine tails. Both played a part in discovering dominant desires within me.

As I climbed into bed with Chris, I sporadically spanked his back, bare ass, and thighs with the cat-o-nine tails. Then I flipped him over and gave him a few lashes on his nipples, cock, and balls. He cried out in ecstasy in response to the lashing, and his cock grew harder with each lash.

The high I experienced was out of this world! And I felt my pussy getting wetter as I continued to give Chris a sensual thrashing. So I straddled his face and ordered him to make me come while I teased his cock with my mouth, fingers, and the cat-o-nine tails.

I was all for discovering dominant desires by that point.

Chris, who was totally under my command, actually made me squirt with his exquisite tongue. And after I came hard twice, I decided to return the favor by giving him a blowjob replete with lashes from the cat-o-nine tails.

What began as a challenging revelation turned into a journey of self-acceptance and personal growth. Chris and I may have taken an unconventional path, but our willingness to explore uncharted territories brought us closer together. And exploring sensual domination or discovering dominant desires within, to put it another way, helped me learn more about my sexuality.

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